Sunday, October 17, 2010

A piece of my past moments

Today I thought of a man passes my path many years ago and kept me wondering what he is up to now.

At the time when I was still in college, I will take bus to go back to my hometown. Once, a late 30s or 40s guy came up to me begging for money. He pleaded me to give him money, but I normally dont give any money to beggars or anyone when they asked.

I'm not sure whether he told the truth story or just wanting to trick me. He told me previous day, he just came out from the prison. He didnt eat anything since he came out from the prison but he seeking donation from others to donate some money to him so that he can buy a bus ticket to his hometown to see his mother who already passed away when he was doing his time. He mentioned, he needed to go back to give his last respect to his mother. I was not sure I able to believe his story is true or not, but I just gave him remaining money hoping that he is say the truth.

Anyhow, we cannot forsee whether they person is lying or telling the truth certain time. Just do what you think is right and live happily. Let the others to carry the burden if he/she is lying. I just wondering he is doing cleaner path now?

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

my dad

I rarely call back my family especially my parents. I feel guilty as I have negligent on their need since I move from my hometown. I feel sad when I was heading to the city in a bus for further studies as I know my life won't be in the place I was raised up. The time started to play forward in such speed without any brakes anymore.

You start to enjoy your freedom and think about stuff related about you. But parents always worried whether their child is safe and well fed or not.


My dad had his stroke when I was finshed my diploma exams. He just collapsed and feel weak when he was trying to carrying my luggage from the car. He love all his children dearly but he do not know how to show it openly. He normally try show it on his own method. Not many people able to see what he show his love, even I overlook his action. Losing his mom at very young age when he is six yrs old. It is not easy as love is not given to him, and his main concern alway what can be filled in his stomach with no food given by his father each day. And try to feed his bros whatever he can find in his path.

Today, I just miss him, he not always a good father but sufficient as he is just a human being just like everyone.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

How to Detect a Liar

How to Detect a Lie (from MSN.com), but it is good useful especially you have face those people in your live daily.


Normally it is lying right infront of you! Most important you really need as basic are:
Good ear
Good eyes
Healthy skepticism


Step 1: You must look at the person react by looking at their body language. They probably touch their face, nose, hair when they lie – EXCESSIVE FACE TOUCHING

Step 2: Follow their eyes
Normally they blink a lot or do not maintain eye contact – ERRATIC EYE BEHAVIOUR

Step 3: Tend to use “I DID NOT”, instead of I did it
They tend to use other’s full name, rather use simply as he/she – UNNATURAL SPEECH

Step 4: Check their smile
Who tell the truth always use a lot facial muscles, but liars just use their smile. – CREEPY HALF SMILING

Step 5: Notice of their posture
Liars tend to keep their posture close, by folding their arms. Or unconsciously place an object between them. – DEFENSIVE POSITIONING

Step 6: Pause Momentarily
If silent make them uncomfortable, they likely lying. – PAUSE-INDUCE DISCOMFORT

Step 7: Pay attention to details
If they provide more information than necessary, it is a bad sign. People who overly-specific if they are making something up. – HYPER-SPECIFIC FABRICATING

Step 8: If you change the subject, they seem relieve. They probably lying straight to your face. – DROPPED TOPIC ELATION.

Step 9: File Up for your future use. If you notice a trend, might it is time for you to teach the liar a lesson

Fact: 91% of Americans report lying on regular basis.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Reminder from Gorrila to me

Please ALWAYS remember How People treat You Good, before you go beserk!!!

The person think he/she is a lion thou. :P

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

E71 has been revived

After more than 2 weeks now, my HP has been repaired. I feel so relief as I'm not interested in buying any new HP for now as I still love my almost 2 yrs old HP still. It cost me MYR140 but the guy in SS14 who did for me was awesomely helpful. His after-service from his shop is superb unlike those others' shops might cheat you.

Blur till got stuck! :D

Today I'm off from work, I thought of going to market to cook dinner tonight. But alas!!! I was so silly that I forgot to bring my house key along, only my car key.

When I shut my wooden door and tried to open my grill door. I really found myself stuck in between. Got to wait for less than an hour to be saved. At least it is better than last year where I was stuck inside the bathroom after my shower. I almost stuck inside for the whole day, thank goodness I was done before A off to work. If not, I got to wait for A for more than 10 hours.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Random-ness

Just something I wrote on a piece of paper many many years ago, which I think before 2004 when I was a bit upset with my work life and people play politics out of fun.

It is just a reminder to myself how to react when certain situation is out of hand and some scenarios unavoidable.

* Just be a piece of word (No facial expression, as do not show to others for them to read)
* Be tranquil and peace in mind a must
* Be content and happy
* Take one day at a time
* Think positively and happiness always
* Look at thing more rational (which I always fail :P)
Why does some people can sleep instantly as soon as they hit the bed. Like a auto system in their body. I'm wondering why -m always having a hard time sleeping. It is a big frustration each time I face while I need to snooze.

In younger day, when I babysit my cousins, they can doze off within 30 seconds as soon as they close their eyes. For me, it might take more than 1 hour. So so unfair!!!