Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Help or no help (depend)

Everyone need someone but sometime a person need to be alone to think what he/she need to do next for their own future. If help always around he/her always, he/she will be too rely on the person on decision and what to do next.

Being help is a blessing, but it could spoilt the person to be dependent on others and expecting help is always around the corner. Sometime, friend's help do not need any work but just giving moral support from friends helps a lot in strength to think what to do next for him/herself.



As we are individual, we need to understand the situation we have now and knowing where we want to head to before we seek help from friend. When in desperation, you seek help urgently might harm yourself even worse situation.

Keep calm and make your own decision. Then only plan to do next action and seek help from other on the areas you needed help on. Thats a part of growing up. No one can hold your hand 24/7 till you die, then it is not worth living.

Even the lowest point of life, you will learn something about yourself even you may not realised you have it in you. It is strength and courage to accept the fact and overcoming it. It is difficult but when the storm is over, you will be stronger person within. Time and patient is the key

Overwhelm

When so many things on my plate, feel so hard to breath and cannot think straight anymore. Just want to be in silence mode and plan out things properly to make sure nothing is missed out.

Even I feel dissapointed and down, but I have to think of 10 people while care on what I should do next for myself too. Many things to deal till I feel lost. I really need to pan out all of my list to do before I screw everything or else nothing is done is proper way. I can do it!! without any strength in me.

It is my feeling and my life path, it is how I should make my own path. People can advice, but in the end, the actual person in control is myself.

Other girls prepare their wedding planning for 1 year duration, yet I only have 3 months to do everything, including dealing with 2 heavy task in my current task and 1 big take for my career path. I do not think anyone understand how I feel and I dont think I want to explain to anyone as no one will understand unless they are face in the situation. Save my breath and focus on needed to be done. No one can help me as all these only directly on myself only.

If fail, at least show you fight till the end without giving up hope.

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Mindset (Organsation = People)

Some people really in denial stage even they do understand the problem and how to solve the issues. Well.. seem it is happening on organisations management decision and personal life decision.

When it happen the lowest point, only will resolve. If you are lucky, you will able to overcome the obstacle during that point. Try to aware the pre-sign before stuck into the situation.

Tour to out of the world

Seem like people creating new ideas out of the book to attract unexpected market. Not everyone afford to travel all around the world. Now, there is a new package of tour to hell. I'm not against on it but I feel very odd and bizzare people starting to promote such service.

The most interesting part is ..the government one of the organiser. It feel weirder now.  Just wondering how much it charge and how many days is the tour.

Here is some of the statement on it or read the full article
The first-ever outdoor netherworld or hell “tour” in Malaysia will be held here in conjunction with the ongoing Hungry Ghost Festival. The “tour” is for believers of the spiritual world to “interact” with their loved ones and friends who have passed on. It is jointly organised by the Penang Teong Guan Association and the state government. So that able to see your loved ones.


http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2011/8/17/nation/9306358&sec=nation

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

A's grandma

A's grandma passed away last month. I'm glad that I able to give her my last respect before she was cremated. She was a gutsy and happy go-lucky old lady of 98 years old. Her funeral was a smooth and happy one as her grandchildren are in 30s and most of them have kids. Everyone in her family love her dearly, and her grandsons take turn to bring her out for date when she still able to walk. They never treat her like an old lady as she always like to jokes and tease all of them. There was a very close bond, especially with her grandsons. It is rarely see elderly will converse with young generation well and able to make each person she met feel at home with her ever cheerful face.

Once I saw her in pain, but she pretend she is ok and going about like it is normal. Even her legs are weak, she will drag a rattan chair to support her from falling. She never like us support her unless it is necessary. She is such a role model on how to be an elder one day.



Monday, August 15, 2011

World Economy Collapse explained in 3 minutes (Funny) - must share

Property Investment Guide

http://www.starproperty.my/PropertyGuide/Finance/5818/0/0

Frienship

Sometime we will not know who are our real true friends. When you are in bad shape and at the most bottom phase of your life...they are the one will be there supporting you in different kind of ways.

It does not need to be in monetary, but it could just moral support or being there to listen to your problem or giving advice to guide to the right path.

In this world, people are getting more competitive and realistic. It is rare even find a true friend. If you found one, treasure them. It is good to have many, but even you have one friend only, it is already a blessing.

Even sometime some people has not found any true friend still, you just need to strong and eventually find one unexpected time and place.  :)

Shocking Incident

Last 2 week at late afternoon, I went to SS TWO Mall in PJ as it is one of the new mall in PJ to check out any new food for dinner. Eventually there are plenty of shops still vacant, nothing much to see.

Before I left the mall around 6pm, I went to the ladies. It was very quiet and only 1 unit is occupied. I checked for tissue on every unit but there isn't any. I decided to use the unit where the left side of mine is occupied by "someone else". While I was doing my own business, I saw a BIG FOOT (dark skin) and it is a MAN's right foot on the next unit. I was shocked and nearly jump out. I check up and down for any spy camera, there is nothing. I bent down and saw the moving shadow on the floor and realised there are 2 people in the unit. Yuck!! They are doing it in the LADIES!! as I went to other side of cubicle later, I saw a female foot.

Honestly, I do not expect something like this to happen in a mall. The worse thing is it is puasa period and they are malays by the looking the skin color of their leg.

Even the cleaner come to the ladies, she also frowning as she feel there is something wrong in the specific unit. I just hurrily ran out.