He said and she said - dispute about sperm abuse

This news become one hot topic, and quite interesting. However everything has his & her side of story and the real story.

His side of story:
Ervin Ahbabovic, a 41-year-old commercial director of a private limited company, stated that he lived with the 29-year-old Malaysian woman some years ago and they had a baby boy born on Feb 7, 2010.

He and the woman later separated but she contacted him often to reconcile for the benefit of the baby, but Ahbabovic claimed that he was actually being treated like a “tool” for the woman to have better children, thanks to his “superior” sperm.

She demanded to have sexual intercourse six times a day with each session lasting approximately one hour,” he stated, adding that she often threatened to commit suicide if her sexual desires were not fulfilled or if he left her for any reason.

Ahbabovic is seeking relief of RM600,000 for the use of his sperm for the purpose of getting a child in the wrong manner, that the woman recognise him as the father in their son’s birth certificate, costs and other reliefs deemed fit.

Ahbabovic remains hopeful of a reconciliation.

Her side of story:
The woman said she had not been in touch with her ex-boyfriend for over a year and that the lawsuit was “totally unexpected”. “I am a respectable person. I don’t need to deal with this kind of gossip.”

She alleged that the 41-year-old was actually unemployed and not a commercial director of a private limited company in Malaysia as he claimed to be. Meanwhile, Ahbabovic claimed that his former girlfriend had told him to “go die on the road” and he “was only a gigolo”.

Further in the article 1 and article 2 and article 3

Personal conclusion:
Why are you suing her for RM600,000 when you suppose to fight for sharing custody rights for your son. Seeking compensation (payment) for your single sperm is more important than seeing your son growing up?

He mentioned he has "superior' sperm I never heard someone will claim their own sperm superior than others. Thats quite insulting to other men. JEsssHH!!

You probably not even supporting your son financially, but the woman is. Seriously, you were not raped by her and you did it wilingly and gave it freely.

Hoping for reconciliation? As soon as you have gotten a lawyer and publish your personal life to public. Do you think the woman will ever accept you back with open arms and huge smile plastered to her face? ROLL-EYES!

When the relationship unable to work after many times of trying, sometimes it is best to let it go for the sake of the child happiness.

speak before you think? u sure?

This is quite ridiculous excuse I ever heard from a politician/editor. I thought we been raised to "think before we speak", but it should not be an excuse for a well-educated person and one is an influential who helped on progress the country to be better. Why is this happening?


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