True Friendship is not easy to find and hard to retain.
When I found the person can be a true friend of mine, I speak out the truth of my opinions and provide my logical advices. The chances is high that it will cost me the friendship when I speak out what I say to them. Not many people able to accept what I say as the truth and advices is hard to expect by anyone when they do not wish to accept and insist of not hearing the real situation. Persisting I'm wrong all the way and they are right all the way. In this situation, I will just let the person do whatever they want as it is their life as I respect them eventhough the friendship might ended.
I keep myself grounded to ensure whenever anyone speak their opinion, I have an open mind to aceept their comment but it does not mean I accept all the advices given as I do evaluate what is right decision to be decided for myself in the end. For example: My boss been brutally honest to me on what I need to improve on. I have no hard feeling but truly honor to understand what is the truth in what she is talking about. As I do sit down and look at my weak points and how to improve if it is logic and make sense.
I cannot change others mind, but only can advice my friends. As I only change myself to be better person and do hope my true friends really understand my intentions.
Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart" - Eleanor Roosevelt quotes
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