Trust

Trust is a simple word, yet it is complex in meaning toward each individual

2 questions:
Have you put your trust to someone but they betray you once or repeatly?
Who can you actually trust?


So how trust really works? Some able to keep the trust, but not many people have integrity to treasure the trust given to them.

Trust is defined as "reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence."

You can emotionally love someone, but not trust them.  

(It is distrastrous for any type relationship)

You can trust them, but not emotionally love them. 

(It can be called a healthy frienships and any good relationship of business)

When you trust a person, you believe that they have your best interest at heart.  They wouldn't do something to hurt you for the fun of it, or for selfish gain.  You rely on them.

You earn a person's trust by consistently proving yourself to them.  You show them that you will not use them or take advantage of them.  You will not abuse their love or their generosity.  You will think of them before acting.

Re-earning a person's trust is done in the same way, except it take amuch longer period of time.  People are very different as to how easily they'll trust others -- some have been seriously hurt in the past and hesitate to trust again.  Others are very "trusting," even of those who don't deserve their trust.  No matter the individual, you earn and re-earn people's trusts through reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence consistency of character -- you prove that you are trustworthy by your deeds.

There is no way to assure a person that you are trustworthy outside of your actions.  Broken trust can take years, even decades to repair.  It's a very sensitive, and even awkward, time for the two people involved.

Here's the key: If you are the person who has broken another's trust,you have no right to expect anything from them, especially trust.  You can only prove by your actions, words, and kept-promises that you are now on the "straight and narrow" and have no intention of straying again.  You cannot hold it against them if they search your life for flaws and wrongs -- you earned their distrust.  Hard work, patience, perseverence, and consistent proof is the only way to regain the trust you don't deserve.

True, it is not easy to trust someone anymore when broken trusts done repeatly. It is really damaging to the person mind and mentally as constantly hurting and trying hard to give trust the person repeatly previously but never appreciate the trust given each time the trust broken. Repair is hard when things are so broken in tiny piece.

Everyone probably did broken someone trust before, however how one person frequently abuse the trust given is something we need to ponder. Trust is just a word, but it is a lot of effort to gain a person trust. Rushing a person to give the trust back, it is something the other person dread facing.

Who can you actually trust?

Yourself only as you should learn from the past and know what is best for you

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Life past and present

There was once I was in this situation for a long long time and I never wish to in this situation anymore. At the beginning, everything was good and everyone is happy and always laughing and smiling. but it became to halt and began downhill. It was not physically, but emotionally. Felt drained and tried many times voicing out my opinion in hope able to salvage what is remaining, but not use at all.

As I am reading it, I just feel angry at myself and feeling frustration on those days pouring at me. I rather forget everything of the past when I realised I unable to change anything at all. Wealth is nothing if you are not happy at all. If you are live feeling frustrated, sad and anger constantly, it is not worth to live at all. Choose the path on your own for your life as no one are suppose to do that for you.

http://www.lovepanky.com/women/understanding-men/15-signs-of-a-controlling-boyfriend


I choose health than wealth,
I choose happiness than argument,
I choose mutual understandings than shouting to get my feelings and opinions but always unheard,
I choose self-respect than no respect given at all,
I choose privacy than being invade all my personal stuff at all times,
I choose laughter than feeling miserable,
I choose joy than depress,
I choose freedom than always extremely careful of my words and actions,
I chose to be an adult and make my own decision than listen and follow others at all times,
I choose to regret on my own decision I make than others decission on what I should do,
I choose reality and factual than denial and pretending everything is alright,
I choose to speak my opinion than supress them,
I choose to walk with skips than walking in slump,
I choose a man who trust and respect his woman than doubting his woman at all times,
I choose a man who is confident than being jealous and insecure,
I choose a man who believe his woman's words than constant finding flaws of her,
I choose a man who understand his woman well than being questioned all times,
I choose a man knows he is love by his woman, than testing his woman's love towards him all times,
I choose to be in a happy & healthy relationship than unhappy & miserable relationship.

Snatch thief and bad service

Last Saturday, we were heading to Muzium Istana Negara after lunch but before we pay for our entry fee, there were a german couple were talking to cashier and guards. They were having some problem conveying what they want to say to each other. After awhile, the cashier ask me to tell the foreign couple as their bag was snatch by thief in motorcyle so they need to report in police station. I did ask how the guard/police how are they bringing the couple to police stationi. Their reply is....the couple need to take a taxi on their own to police station.

Questions in my head as I'm not happy with the service we giving to tourist:

1) Why they do not call the police to come and attend the snatch thief case?
2) Why do the victim need to use their own money for the taxi fare to report their stolen items in police station as it is not walking distance (what if everything is stolen including money, where got money to pay the taxi fare but the muzium people insist they need to go by taxi). Is there any compassion and logic on this point at all... WTF!
3) Why the service is so bad?
4) There is no well english speaking guards to attend any issue if occur, and assuming all tourist should able to understand/speak Malay?
5) How are we suppose to do "Visit Malaysia 2014" if things are not to standard of service?

Yeap!! Such a wonderful year to see, feel and experience Malaysia :P

Repetitive of choice or not

People will not change permanently, only temporary.

Sometimes wishing things and events could rewind back, however none of us could do that but only moving forward. As moving forward, could only make decisions more carefully on things as you wish to prevent conflicts, arguments and unnecessary event happen again and again. Too old for negative stuff, just hold on things which is postive, not negativity. Don't want to live miserable and unhappy till the end

It is so meaningless to sweat over things not going work at all after tried and hoping things will change. Just cast it away. It hurts in beginning but in the end, life will be happier and more peaceful.

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