Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Customs rules might be a harm more than good sometimes


Nanyang Siang Pau reported that a woman, who was in confinement after giving birth recently, suffered heatstroke and died while being treated in a hospital in Shandong province, China.
It was learnt that the woman, who was in her 20s, was not allowed to switch on the fan or air-conditioner although the weather was extremely hot.
Her family members also asked the woman to wear a long-sleeved blouse and pants, and to cover herself with a blanket.
Some Chinese believe that women who have given birth should not be exposed to cool air as it could lead to health problems in the future.

Too many rules and customs strictly given to pregnant ladies and does under confinement which required to obey. Sometimes you need to judge what is right and wrong and stand firm eventhough people might angry or hurt as you ignore their old custom rules.
We all need to adapt to current situation instead stuck to all the customs rules given by elders with "valid and practical reasons" which yourself must understand first before agree to it. 

Yes, as if you will awesome health without any issue till you die. As you age, your health is unavoidable deteriote so do not use lame reason to make a woman suffer due to your belief. 


Your body - your decision, not others.

In the end, the child is motherless as the mother just follow to old custom which even elders just follow previously.

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Age changes one emotional in phases

Being a mother is not easy, but it has taught me the newer and deeper level of patient.
Also to put what is priority in life and what should put aside as always put what is important in life.

When you are young, things feel so complicated as we are still learning to cope with reality of life. As we grow older, we learn to act more rational and wiser.

Dont you think so?


Repetitive "I should know" "I should know"

Why some people thinking that I should know ALL, when they also don't know a lot of stuff.
Cannot just inform or guide if "I dont know about it?", but need to keep on saying " I should know?"

Crazy people....

You self also said everything keep on change all the time, when so many changes non-stop till my head also spinning including others also say the same thing. If you dont upkeep and well inform others including me, HOW SHOULD I KNOW???

Keep being sacrastic to me, want to trigger my anger is it? Trying to make me fall into your stupid trap?

Tell me straight into my face if you are brave to do so, do not need to play dirty tricks.

Yes, I curse each time you say that word, but after cursing for 2 mins. I calm and forget about it as it is not worth to dwell over this repetitive episode as it will never stop. Cursing is to vent out and let go all the negative energy  so that I can keep only the POSITIVE vibe in me.

Happy a good weekday.!

Yes,  the main key is  I "SHOULD KNOW" what is important and what is not important to dwell on. Not what you inform me what I should know thou. :P
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