Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Property Rental Return (reference)



I also keep links about things I need to remember. This is a reference link which good for me and others.


With the exception of houses, a good benchmark for all residential investment grade properties is about 6% (or more) rental returns. The following is the formula to determine rental returns:






http://www.starproperty.my/PropertyGuide/Finance/10009/0/0

Japan worst case more than decade - 2011

Japanese confronted earthquake and tsunami on 11-03-2011, till now...they are still facing earthquake and unknown whether the nuclear will be affecting them. Even they all are now facing one the worst event of their life. I really amaze with their behaviour and strength within them. Even they heavily rely on technology and one of the import countries in the world. They are one of the most grounded people. I do think other developed countries can learn something from them. A country which I truly salute and have no doubt they will able to handle this disaster with the union among themselves.

Here is something I read in the dailymail.co.uk today posted, and I could not agree more about how Japanese are mould from their parents and education given there.


"Grateful as they are for outside help, it became clear that the Japanese don't really need it — for these stoical, self-disciplined, highly organised and resourceful people are accustomed to managing on their own.

In every side-street, I found groups of people toiling, almost like worker-ants, despite the seemingly overwhelming tragedy they have faced.  They swept, scoured, sifted, wheeled barrows, made neat piles — even smiling resignedly as they went about their tasks. Robert Bailey told me almost all the bodies were tagged and removed to the town's four makeshift mortuaries within hours of the water subsiding. There was no time for mourning — that will come later. 'One thing that's etched into the Japanese personality is that they must be clean and tidy and that each person is responsible for maintaining their own area,' he said. 'Complaining is not done. A teacher colleague has lost two family members, but he still had a beer with me last night and didn't look for sympathy.'


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1366673/A-selfless-British-hero-When-tsunami-alarm-sounded-young-teachers-thought-save-class-terrified-pupils.html#ixzz1GkuCyZA3

Friday, March 11, 2011

Trees vs Concrete

Last few days ago, I was driving home from office. I saw the city council peoples are cutting down all the old trees. These trees are aged more than 50 to 100 years. It is very sad as those trees are consider one of the oldest trees in KL in Jalan Ampang which also consider one of the oldest road in KL.

Now, I see the city council re-planting "miniature" plants which die easily. They just have to re-plant again every year. They rather do the easy way out that than trimming the old tree branches yearly.

Yes, miniature plants are more presentable to look at, but trees are move valuable. With the KL weather so bloody hot, it is so hard to walk with no shade around which can be offered easily by these old trees. Try to walk across the street with an umbrella is like walking inside an oven. So disappointed to see KL city will be all concrete with no trees around. It should have balance of everything in 1 place. Too bad to know the city council have lazy asses with short sighted vision.

Monday, March 7, 2011

Pain and pointless

I need to eat painkiller. Too much pain in my body from the frustration. Why no one understand me at all?

BFF is not real for me

If my best friend is attack by people, with knowing him for so many years... I will know his character too well on what he capable of doing. Even what happen, I do believe him without him trying convince me as I know him too well. I will not doubt him even.

If someone say thing ill about me, my best friend will side the other person as I'm the person who he has doubt unless I have proof even the other party don't need any proof or fact about me. Do I have a true friend I can rely and who knows me well to understand the type of person. The answer is NO. I have no true friend I know that I don't need convince my true colours. It is sad but this is my life. I have to face this fact of my life. Do I want to continue who I am really is? I don't want anymore. U can just accept who I am without always convincing my trust or U can leave. I don't care anymore. Too tired of all this drama.

From I see lately, all I can say is 'action speak louder than word'.

promises

We promises to clear the air if we have any doubts anything and clarify what happen if not sure the truth of the story. That was also more than 1 year ago. After some my friends said I was a person love to flirt and hang around with young men.

After fighting for days, mentally drained. Eventually he mentiond the story and never say who said it. But confirm it was truth as it was 2 people mentioned the similar thing. Therefore it was 2 against 1. After days of heated arguments with both of us exhausted. He eventually told me the assholes created the story about me. The fight impact us deeply but I could not believe we wasted our time arguing over a stupid story and my friend prefer to believe the assholes than me. It was a big blow to me about how much of trust he had on me. It was zero of trust.

The level of knowing me also Zero even we know each other for years. It was a BIG dent inside my emotion as we have waste our time argue over a stupid story.

After this event, I thought we promise we will come clean and clear the air as soon as we have any doubt. He was the one who make both of us promise.

But last week, he forgotten the promise and we fought again over stupid trust issue. I am very angry till now. After what we have promise, he return of not trusting me. The hurt is unbearable as I feel so dissapointed. What is the use of the frienship if ur friend always using stuff to attack you over other conversation.

I feel so hurt and dissapointed till now. My fren has a different mindset from me. It is so hard to tell what I really feel from my heart. Letting go a friend is easier than feeling betrayed. I feel betrayed, but he think he is the one being betrayed. Therefore the story is continue as I'm the problem. Let it be as all of thing truly childish and waste of time.

Why argue when I just want to act like mature person. If a person want to argue with me, I will walk away. Enough is enough.

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Before it heal, it collapsing again

As the stock market got better, then suddenly there are protests/wars, natural disasters and oil prices hike again. Now the Asian market falling again....all I can see are RED in most of the counters performance. There are so many people are trying to selling off their shares or got stuck already. Playing stock market is not easy as it is hard to predict which best counter to pick.

Well, to me...it is time to look at the stocks while it is going downwards, unless most of your money already stuck in the stock market.

Mood

NOW I VERY PISS AS I REALISE MY STUFF INSIDE MY PC is SCAN/READ by my fren. VERY DISSAPOINTED and ANGRY LIKE SHIT.

I dont think I have such friend invaded my privacy till this extend

friendship define wrongly

I have my personal problem I need to deal with. Honestly, I do not have a true friend who can give me moral support without adding more headache and argument in my life.

I feel without any friends even better....even it is lonely but at least I dont need argument with people over SENSELESS reason.

I need some privacy and self respect given. Not treat like I'm in the jail and under parole. Friendship is define different from each person. But my definition friendship is giving people freedom to choose as they are "adult" and become their advisor, not pusher.

If the friend keep on asking you.. why are you lying now? what are you hiding now? where are you now? what u doing now till u are busy meh?

I do have limit in patient when people pushing me around. When I retaliate, the case like I'm wrong. When I feel like I;m not wrong at all. When Im wrong, I do admit. But I do want RESPECT from my friends. Yet, I feel like I'm still in kindergarten playing childish games.

Dissapointed

Honestly, I dont know what's up with my friend. Just because I didnt talk to him today, he is so piss and start to accuse me here and there. What is this?

When my friend is busy...I give space to him to have his own time to do his stuff. When just bcoz only today I didnt chit chat with him. He is mad. Why cannot be a flexible as I do not ignore him all the time, only when I'm tied with work and other personal things.

Arrrgggghhh...forget it...I do not want to proceed of getting angry after spending so many year over this. I do not want to re-start this again. EVER AGAIN!!! I'm OLD and FED UP happening over again.

I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY AND PEACEFUL LIFE.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Trust

How much your friend needed to know about you to trust you fully?

1) Base on basic instinct where talking to the person frequently?
2) Knowing her/his family background
3) Understand her/his normal character on how the person react to scenarios to see she/he is a honest
4) Check all the information about he/her through internet
5) Scan through his/her pc to look into photos and videos (even though it is private)
6) Read all his/her MSN/skype/yahoo messages to other friends to confirm how much his/her friendship to others?
7) Asking around friends about you to know who you really are to have not double confirm, but hunderd of confirmation just in case 1 person said the different thing about her/him.
8) Read up personal diary
9) Look at personal bank statements
10) Others stuff which inside her/his pc.

If you are face this situation, will be ok for you?
How come it is only 1 side being treat such way, is ok? Is the person being push and bullied when the other think it is alright. Is this healthy relationship? What is I get married and have sex....do I need to video and take photos with bf/gf  to ensure who make I really having sex with only 1 person, or else perceive he/she having sex with everyone. What is the limit of respecting one's private life without stepping too much.
What is the level of personal life is invaded. It is not about keeping secret or hiding any information to a person. But it is based how much you really need to know. If the person did not do any wrong, but doing normal routine life....but friend dont know...is it call as a secret?

Today, I am extremely tired. Yet people insist I'm hiding something.  How many more years I need to face till this scenario stop. When I'm at 60?

I rather let go such people even we were good friends for years as I really want to be free from all these drama and live happily.