Everyone need someone but sometime a person need to be alone to think what he/she need to do next for their own future. If help always around he/her always, he/she will be too rely on the person on decision and what to do next.
Being help is a blessing, but it could spoilt the person to be dependent on others and expecting help is always around the corner. Sometime, friend's help do not need any work but just giving moral support from friends helps a lot in strength to think what to do next for him/herself.
As we are individual, we need to understand the situation we have now and knowing where we want to head to before we seek help from friend. When in desperation, you seek help urgently might harm yourself even worse situation.
Keep calm and make your own decision. Then only plan to do next action and seek help from other on the areas you needed help on. Thats a part of growing up. No one can hold your hand 24/7 till you die, then it is not worth living.
Even the lowest point of life, you will learn something about yourself even you may not realised you have it in you. It is strength and courage to accept the fact and overcoming it. It is difficult but when the storm is over, you will be stronger person within. Time and patient is the key
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