insecurity cause negativity mindset

Sometimes when a person been telling you that "if you ever lie to me, I am done".  Is this a threat?

To me is a threat even though to other party seem it is not even a threat. Not that I ever fear over this statement but seem quite funny when one always wanting to search flaw and insisting the person lying.

You think the person should only whatapps or contact solely you only? You have plenty of family members and friends contacting you through whatapps with no restriction but you expect me to not using whatapps too frequent except I communicate with you.

yes, I typed till my fingers in pain but I still have family members I need communicate over issue after arguing with you for 2 freaking hours. THANKS!! make me type so long over silly argument ....then when we are done...you expect me to stop typing totally when I actually wasted time and energy typing over your overly demanding attention!

My family members also important to me! You keep on checking my online status and telling me why I online...seem very ridiculous and childish as I do online to read my work emails too! I also need to reply my family too and also reply emails if needed. What is the point of checking my online status constantly and telling me..."I hope you are not lying to me!" 

if you are stress, upset, over tired...do not try to take it on me. I'm not your punching bag to release your negative energy. If you act like a child, then I try to be parental to you eventhough I hate it so much as I always expect to treat you as an adult. 

You tend to throw tantrum just bcoz I gone out with friends, that is your issue. Don't try to shoot me like I have done on something bad. 

My husband trust me and let me do my own stuff. Why you try to restrict me for being who I am?
Why you need to strict like as if you are my father when you are not. I have a father who let me do what I want when I growing up. I don't need another father at all. thank you so much.